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Do you need better tools, or do you need to be honest with yourself?
You've already tried harder. This is something else.
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You’ve already done some internal work.
You know your attachment style. You can trace the origin of the shutdown. You understand, intellectually, exactly what is happening when your partner reaches for you and your body goes somewhere else entirely.
The insight is not the problem.
What you haven’t been able to do is close the gap between knowing and actually feeling different. In the room, in the relationship, in your body, in bed. The moment it matters, something older takes over. You manage it. You analyze it later. The loop continues.
This is not a skills problem. You don’t need better communication scripts or a new framework for conflict. You need the pattern itself to change. The one that decides, below conscious thought, what intimacy is allowed to look like for you.
That’s the work here.
This is where the pattern changes.
I’m Bri, a sex therapist and clinical sexologist.
I work with people who have already done significant self-work and know a lot about their patterns. They come because the patterns are still running.
My work operates at the level underneath behavior. Not what you do in your relationships, but what your nervous system decided intimacy was allowed to be before you had any say in it. That’s what we change.
Clients don’t leave with worksheets or how-to advice. They leave with clearer boundaries and spend less time ruminating. They leave with the ability to choose who they are and how they show up in their relationships and daily life.
Change becomes possible here because this work reaches what trying harder never touched.
SPECIALTIES
RELATIONSHIP WITH SELF
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Take the reins back. Make decisions that align with your needs, your values, and the life you want to live.
RELATIONSHIP WITH OTHERS
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Navigate your relationships (monogamous or polyamorous) with more clarity, intention, and ease.
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SEX AND SEXUALITY
Get out of your head, feel more present, and fully enjoy getting head, giving head, and everything else.
THE PROCESS
Let’s start with a conversation - Schedule a 15-minute consultation to talk through what you’re looking for and determine whether working together makes sense.
Complete the paperwork and schedule a session - If we both decide to move forward, I’ll send you the intake paperwork. Once it’s complete, we’ll schedule your first session.
We’ll assess where you are - We’ll take a clear look at where you are, what patterns are no longer working, and what needs to change.
We’ll meet every week or every other week - We’ll meet weekly or every other week to do focused, consistent work that builds momentum and supports real change.
Thrive - Live with more agency, ease, and alignment in your relationships, your decisions, and your day-to-day life.