Online sex and relationship therapy in California.

Life didn’t come with a handbook for sex and relationships, but you don’t need to figure it out alone.

People come to you when they don't know what to do next, but who do you turn to when you're the one who needs help?

Headshot of Brionna Otte, LMFT, a Black sex and relationship therapist in California.

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You’ve Googled incognito late at night.

You searched online, trying to figure out if what you're feeling is normal, if sex is supposed to feel like a chore, if this resentment is just what relationships feel like after a while. You can’t help but think maybe everyone else has figured something out that you somehow missed.

You’ve tried everything you know, but you’re still having the same arguments, caught in the same thought spirals, and not having the kind of sex you want. But you’re tired of spinning your wheels and still feeling like shit.

Now let’s try all the ways you don’t know how to fix it.

Therapist Brionna Otte seated outdoors with coffee, providing virtual therapy across California.

You found the right person.

I’m Bri, a clinical sexologist and therapist who specializes in sex and relationships.

In session, I work with your thoughts, what comes up in your body, and the parts of yourself that have been running the show without your permission because the pattern doesn't just live in your head. Together, we'll figure out what's keeping you stuck in the same patterns, even when you know better, and explore what it actually takes to do something different.

Specializations

SEX AND SEXUALITY

Sex is one place where your go-to strategies don’t seem to work anymore.

But you can’t strategize your way into a fulfilling sex life, and the more you try, the more disconnected you feel from your partner.

The sex may be the most obvious problem, but what if it’s a signal for something else? Let’s figure out what it’s trying to tell you.

RELATIONSHIPS

Most of your relationships are fine. They just ask a lot of you, drain you, and are where you play out the same patterns that don’t serve you over and over again.

But they’re fine, right?

Let’s take a second look and see what could change.

LGBTQ+ AND

NEURODIVERGENT AFFIRMING CARE

Who you are is never a problem here. You don’t have to show up as someone you’re not.

And if you’re thinking, “That sounds great, but the usual advice everyone keeps suggesting doesn’t work for me,” great! We’ll work with your brain, not against it.

The Proccess

We Talk - Schedule a free 15 to 20-minute consultation. No commitment, no pressure - just a conversation to see if this is the right fit.

We Get Started - If we both decide to move forward, I'll send over a short intake, and we'll get your first session on the calendar.

We Get Honest About Where You Are - We look at what's actually happening in your sex life and relationships, where the patterns started, and what needs to shift.

We Do the Work - Weekly or every other week sessions focused on real, felt change - not just insight.

You Live Differently - Less pressure. More presence. A sex life and relationships that finally feel like yours.


On The Call

You don't have to know exactly what to say on the call.

You don't need to have a clear explanation of what's wrong. You just have to show up, and I'll take it from there.

The consultation is 15 - 20 minutes, and we’ll have a conversation to see what you’re looking for and whether I can help, and by the end of it, we’ll have a better sense of fit.